Consider Holiday Visitation Schedules During Divorce
Posted By Administrator on November 30, 2009
During the holiday season, family law attorneys typically receive frantic phone calls from divorced or divorcing parents wanting to settle disputes over holiday visitation schedules. I always hate to tell those callers that absent a well-drafted written agreement, the answer isn’t always simple.
To avoid such disputes, it is important to have your divorce lawyer draft a visitation agreement that devotes specific language to which parent will have the children during specific holidays and birthdays. It is prudent to submit such an agreement to the court early in a divorce proceeding so that there are no issues while the parties are negotiating a final divorce settlement. It goes without saying that all final divorce agreements should contain specific visitation language with respect to holidays and birthdays.
It is important to avoid ambiguities in visitation agreements. For example, “father shall have visitation with the minor children on Thanksgiving in odd numbered years” leaves room for interpretation and thus potential dispute. What time does this visitation begin and end? Which parent will provide the transportation? Does Thanksgiving include an overnight or full weekend visitation? Taking the time to specifically address these issues in advance will save a lot of grief later.
Most people only address the “major” holidays (such as Thanksgiving, Chanukah and Christmas) but fail to consider holidays such as Fourth of July and Labor Day. I suggest looking at a calendar to decide which holidays may expand a weekend visitation (such as Memorial Day) or which may provide an extra day of visitation due to the children being home from school. Halloween may expand the length of a visitation period into evening hours.
Finally, I have seen several otherwise well-drafted visitation agreements that completely ignore the birthdays of the parents and children. It is important to consider how parents will handle dividing time with the children on these important days.
Remember, a well-drafted visitation agreement will save you a lot of frustration (and the cost of additional court time). Be sure to give it careful thought.
[Thanks to Orange County Divorce Lawyer Blog for the inspiration]
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